Okay....

A couple questions for you....


WHEN, can you step back and relax and breathe ?

WHEN, can you put down the phone, and stop e-mailing ?

WHEN, can you focus on YOU, and look into the mirror ?

WHEN, can you realize that all of this BS, somehow contributed to the downfall of this relationship.

WHEN, can you drop the rope and let this play out QUIETLY ?

WHEN, you do this, without pressure, you affect the dynamics of the drama that is created throughout this.

You remove all of the buttons that send YOU spinning in circles, henceforth, taking all reactive communication away from her.

Her negativity doesn't hinge on your reations, because they are gone.

Takes the focus off of you , and it gives her no ammunition to throw back at you.

Therefore.....Are YOU really reacting to her ?

Or is she reacting to you ?

Chicken ?

or

Egg ?