S7 had an over the top tantrum this morning at h's. I finally got it under control. H suggested we drop the kids off together and then go have breakfast. I said I need to go to the market to get them lunches and bring them back to the school. H said that shouldn't take too long and told me where he'd be. I said I've got a lot to do. He looked surprised and offended. He even challenged me a little and said "well, you know where I'll be. Or I guess I'll see you later."
I can't tell if something is happening here...
I don't know if we are ready to even talk about it overtly but I would kind of like to ask "what do you want."
I do feel like we're speaking different languages and I'm either misreading or missing something. Or perhaps we are both just ambivilant and giving mixed messages.
