I think I've reached stage of Acceptance. As for H, I have no idea what stage he's in. He reaches out a bit, then withdraws, still lots of Replay behavior.
H's behavior is becoming more and more strange. Told me last week he'd be going out of town. Then, other close friends said they were also going with their families, and H canceled his trip. Never told me he canceled and didn't bother seeing kids.
My relative was in town and went out to meet H. H surprisingly brought up subject of D, saying he had talked to me about it. They didn't talk for long, but relative said H seemed to be lying. Also said that H didn't seem to fit in with the friends he was hanging out with. His take on H is that he's still searching to find himself.
Helps having someone else's view. Think I've been looking at H and a happy future with him with rose-colored glasses for too long now.
