Glad to hear you are healthy and happy, no doubt this is eventually possible but your road to it was HELL.
You are right about lawyers, I am sure my H's lawyer was shocked to hear what the real deal was and it will be interesting going forward...I know after reading the brief letter from H's attorney to him with questions that his L might be concerned; however, he did accept him as his client.
This was the first time H saw his plans in writing and the first time someone other than us heard what he plans to do and it probably did not come across as sound. I mean, if H is excited about his future than why doesn't he tell anyone? He is certainly in no hurry to tell our employer he is leaving, or his family, etc.
Again, thanks for sharing because there is no doubt one could go insane living in H's delusional world and it affects a persons psyche and health.
I am going for a general checkup today and contemplating asking about some anti-depressants or general referrals for counseling. The Divorce Busting counselors have been pretty good; however, I think it is important that you are face to face. I also am going to look into separation/divorce groups.
Take care, Michele
M 42 H 41 M 16 yrs. Together 23 yrs. Bomb 5/16/09 D papers in progress
