Is my wife a WAW or is this a MLC? thx2brs

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Got a text from wife,walked into house fridge not working,neigbors looked at it,can I buy another one,won't spend much,I swear. 9:15 am

I texted back at noon,i didn't know i had a text.

Yeah sure. Sorry about late response battery died.

At 3 I texted...would u consider one of us moving into D's room,another room,u'd get your space swear,just thinking of the kids.

Fridge Done?

I have not heard from either child,texted both last night.

Turned off my phone. I'm not expecting a response back.

DB coach gave me homework,on my way to bkstore,so can read book,write kids short letter. A forgiveness letter.

DB coach said kids can and will sense change,but this is not good situation for them either.

I have not had a cigarette all day. Was a pack a day smoker,when this started 2-3 packs a day.

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I'm glad you were able to catch your son's ADHD early.

It really can be a gift, there is a lot of things I would not have done or felt if I did not have it,for two months I was ashamed of it, now I know I just need to tweak somethings.

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Got a text,fridge is done,might take dog to vet e/r.

Too funny, we all knew consideratation text would be ignored.

Sounds like she's had a busy wkend.

I just texted back, K on one text. Then texted right after.. last time took dog to vet,they did blah.

I am curious why she is asking or telling on things, Friday she spent couple hundred bucks on an oil change,that if she'd brought car to dlrship or called me would've been free. Wierd.No I didn't say anything to anybody.

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She emailed this am.

What did you and S decide about football tonight? If I take him, I have to cancel my session with cnslr. I need to give her a call as soon as possible.

By the way, last night S told me she wanted to take him.

i emailed back...S told me you wanted to take him, if it’s all right with you, I’d like to take him.

Do you like cnslr is she helping you?

Looking forward to checking back with you guys tonite. AYK

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i emailed back...S told me you wanted to take him, if it’s all right with you, I’d like to take him.

STOP.....

Do you like cnslr is she helping you?

Looking forward to checking back with you guys tonite. AYK

Pressure.....Something that she doesn't want to share now...

At some point, you have to stop letting yourself get sucked into the drama....

Then you can see how your actions affect communication...

She tends to push your buttons until you respond in the way she needs you to , so that it justifies her indecision....

YOU make up her mind for her by reacting how she needs you to....

Stop the drama, change the results......

Chicken or the egg kinda way.....Absorb ?

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Her reply:

I do WANT to take him but should go to Cnslr tonight. I will take him tomorrow. Yes, Cnslr is helping.

My reply:
Cool go see cnslr, can watch his practice tomorrow and you can take and pick up, ok?

Relieved and glad to hear cnslr is helping. You saying she is helping is the first positive thing had heard.

What about taking dog to vet? Thanks for pics. Answer back when convenient to you.

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So do I just not reply?

Need to get to work, I'll check back later guys.

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Oh I haven't had a smoke or meds today either.

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i emailed back...S told me you wanted to take him, if it’s all right with you, I’d like to take him.

STOP.....

Do you like cnslr is she helping you?

Looking forward to checking back with you guys tonite. AYK

Pressure.....Something that she doesn't want to share now...

At some point, you have to stop letting yourself get sucked into the drama....

Then you can see how your actions affect communication...

She tends to push your buttons until you respond in the way she needs you to , so that it justifies her indecision....

YOU make up her mind for her by reacting how she needs you to....

Stop the drama, change the results......

Chicken or the egg kinda way.....Absorb ?

Explain a little better please

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Could you explain that alittle better please?