Originally Posted By: wanttobebetter
there is a part of me that thinks the only way for them to see the light is to move out and see how different may be from what they had envisioned.


I think you're right here. The "utopian vision" that they have created of what their life would look like if they were out and independent must be pretty strong. It seems like the only way they will be able to ree through the fog will be to go. Hopefully once they are there they will see it for what it really is.

Thanks for the prayers. I'll add you to my ever growing list too.

On that note, faith has been a great focus for me during all of this. I've had some amazing experiences that I just couldn't explain with anything other than God is letting me know that he is here and aware of our situation. He hasn't "fixed" it to what I have been looking for, but he's shown himself for sure.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.