This weekend we had plenty of family time..my d was asked by neighborhood friend to go somewhere and I included my H in the decision..he said no this is the only time we get to spend together as a family..Saturday night he asked me to sleep in our basement w/ him aka his apartment..he held me most of the night and said ya know this does not change things between us..I ignored him he was drunk I said lets not talk about r or I will go upstairs...more family time on Sunday...He was back in the basement last night..His actions are not matching up with his words...I am SO confused...I just think if he wanted a divorce or to leave he would have done it by now...it has been 5months since this began and he is still here..maybe he just has no where to go...I am really confused..I have not nagged or B at him for 2 weeks now and I do not intend to start
