Seems to be no issue with wife and I sleeping in the same bed. There is no physical contact of any kind, but at least I have made that goal - somewhat by default, but still it's a goal made.
I also sorta achieved a goal yesterday. I went grocery shopign with my wife. I had to somewhat invite myself, but my wife did wait while I showered and we did go together. She really needed someone to go with her since she is still very ill, and our d18 was sick too, so I won't count this one as a real victory.
I kept to myself a fair amount all weekend, but also watch tv with wife and played scrabble with her. It's much like we are roomates, but better than were we were a couple weeks ago.
No R talk of any kind. Being very careful no to mention anything about the future - other than a brief comment about annual XMAS vacation. Looks like we will be going as usual.
Not sure where to go from here. Just keep living "as if" and keeping up the changes and wait for her to say/do something? Thoughts???
