I do not understand why you are being so damned spiteful.
FIB can handle his own battles, he is a big boy.
He posted the email, and I understand that he wanted some feedback but you totally crossed a line.
YES I too am one of those awful and terrible Pollyana hopelessly romantic standers.
Sorry if that offends you too.
I too believe that if FIB's wife were to get some much needed help then their marriage could perhaps even saved.
This is a place where we all come for support, not to bash one another for having a different opinion. Not everyone here will have the same ideals or values as you, but they are still hurting and are still trying to cope with the hand they have been dealt.
Frank, I am just so dissapointed in your reaction to FH. You of all people chose to stand for your Marriage for a long time. Do you regret that now?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.