Hazard,
Thank YOU for stopping by my thread and PLEASE feel free to drop in any time, I like your 2 cents!

Tonight as my H and I were sitting in the river room chatting mindlessly, I ask him if he'd look at his schedule for next week and coordinate with mine so that we could have a weekly date. I told him that I didn't want us slipping back into a routine of watching the Fox news all night etc and us not taking time to nurture our relationship on a constant basis. He agreed whole heartedly and thought it was a great idea.

SO my POSITVE for today is: I made a request of something that would be good for our M/R and he agreed without hesitation and...even some enthusiasm.

I was also a good girl because when I came home I remembered to go to him and kiss him hello...he was waiting in the driveway when I pulled in. AND I MADE dinner (usually make him bbq or something. AND I stayed calm and happy even the one or two times the opportunity arose for me to turn a simple comment he made into something OTHER than what he'd actually said.

So, day ONE of my ACTION plan has been a success...one down...zillion to go, but who's counting
T2