Is this the best place to talk with you ? (I hope it is).
I've just read the last few post on this thread and the others are spot on in what they are saying.
Also at this point I have to add that this is about you now, and can be done just with you, but you will need to be more detached (from H) and become the real you or a new you. ( I hope that made sense).
Anyway tell me more about the Philippines, and why you think you need an investigator to track your H over there and what you think you may find, and what you think you will do with the information.