Hey BJ, question for you that I am struggling with big time.
I am getting so resentful and hurt thinking about how much money I will have to hand over to my W every week, so she can be the single women she want so be.
You are further into this than I am, have you felt the same issues? How are you coping with those? Has the financial picture become clearer as you move along to both the W and you?
It is going to be such a financial burden on me, and she is going to be handed more money from me every week than she has ever even made at a job by herself, that it can't look as anything but a blessing to her.
I keep coming back to this, and struggling mightily.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."