Hi Kev, That is a very difficult sitch. Sorry, I don't have kids, so won't be of much help. I would say keep Wee man's concerns & best interest at a #1 priority. If you choose to talk to her about it, it's probably best to leave her parents out of it. She's an adult not a child, even if she is acting like a child at times.
It seems many WAS's lives spin downwards.
Your a smart man, Kev, say strong!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)