I just had to post this as I find it truly amazing how the exh has become so good and deflecting the blame from himself to me or others. The logic and self awareness is completely gone.
Yesterday after I busted him in yet another lie (that he wasn't with his married gf anymore) he started texting me and saying that he wants to work it out but I show no interest. Then he sent the following:
"Bottom line for me is I want to try and make things work but for me I have seen no change in you at all. I care about you and always will but cant stand that you make me out to be this monster hurts my feelings."
Oh, how I wanted to respond to that...but didnt. After I got over laughing so hard I realized he hasn't changed at all and really has made no progress (thanks BS for pointing that out). I guess what he is saying he won't give up drinking and his married girlfriend until he sees change in me. Yeah right!
No personal responsibility was taken. None! I am sure I have things I need to work on to make a relationship better. Who doesn't?
Yeah sweetheart...go back to your married girlfriend who gives you pills, ego strokes, and then you dismiss her back to her husband and kids. Perfect relationship for you.
A girlfriend has a saying "Dodge Sh**tballs!". Man, did I dodge one again! Things have to look up and get better!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
