Snodderly, Thank you. I knew once I wrote that I wasn't going to get an answer and I think the little Devil in me came out. But again back to DBing and go from there. I knew I had to acknowledge the hurt he has..but I don't think he will ever let this go. Do I just keep saying Im sorry for your pain, is there something I am missing... to say besides the acknowledgement? But thank you so much.....again always good answers!
Forward...yes they do come out of it. Im not really sure how long he has been out. I dont think it has been too long though. My XH has many demons that held him back from coming from this alien world. I also understand it does take along time if they are in a deep MLC, as mine was......Good luck to you. I am praying for us all.....Keep DBing it really is the best for us all!
Anything good in life is worth waiting for! Take care of you!
H-43 W-52 M-6/21/90 LU-NIL-7/03 M/OUT- 7/03 Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out) D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)
