Sooo, stbxH sent me the letter. And he wants "to really try this time". He doesnt mention her at all. Already trying to ignore her I suppose, although he takes responsibility for where we stand. He says our bond is such that just wont break. That he cant forget all the good times we had together. He describes some of our very "bonding" moments.His letter is very touching.
He says we could even file and during the year, see if we can be together. He never mentions he loves me.
He says he respects and admires me soooo much. Repeats that I am the only one with this scary influence on him.
And says writting this has been very difficult for him but he means every word. And that if I decide there is no chance, he knows he was the one that brought us here... K