Originally Posted By: BeingMe
Leave no prisoners. mad So what, if you're stamped a troublemaker! That's someone with power, not so?! grin

oh, I'm already labelled a troublemaker--and worse. Because I dared to do a ministry there that took just a tiny bit of the limelight away from the business manager, who must be all things to all people--and be seen as such. That I'm not worried about, and I couldn't make it any worse than it is. The thing is, I have no power in this--certain people would be just as happy to be rid of both of us so they wouldn't have to be reminded of how badly they treated us. So threatening to pull her out of school means nothing--may, in fact, be what they want. And there's really no "going over their heads" because it's really only the folks in power who are like this. Can't appeal to their shame or their view of themselves as Christians, because that obviously is only for show. I was just hoping the good would outweigh the bad for her this year--and there's still a lot of good. Just that the bad is so blatant and involves all the things she really enjoys doing. Giving this lots of prayer.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012