At Tal's suggestion, this is a list of T2's sins of the past reconciliation/cohabitation attempt:
1- I was pathetically clingy
2- I didn't get through a single day without bringing up the A in one form or another
3- I snooped (checked his cell daily for in and out calls and kept a written record of them
4- I paniced every time he was five minutes late.
5- I challenged every excuse/reason he gave for just about everything
6- I brought our lack of intimacy up so often I think he couldn't have gotten "in the mood," if I was a perfect 10.
7- I stayed moody and sullen to much of the time
UGH no wonder it didn't work....reading all that, I , just had the urge to leave me