A Crossroads

[Can it work]

I think I need a bit of advice today. I had some very disturbing news about my W last night. Apparently, she was out with her friends on Saturday night and ended up fighting at some point. Aside from that she was also with a different guy than I thought she was seeing. I had my son for the weekend so I know he was away from it all. The issue I have is that it took some strong intervention from some of her friends to stop the police being called after my W assaulted another girl. When I went to drop off my son last night my W met me at the door to take him back. Normally I would just go in but obviously there was something in there she didn't want me to see. Whether it was a guy or a mess I'm not sure but I am beginning to get really concerned for my son's welfare.

I don't know what best to do about all this though. I know that if I try to discuss this rationally with my W she will immediately go on the defensive and nothing productive will come of it. I've also considered going to her parents but I'm not sure how fair that is. It's not only my son I'm concerned about. My W seems to be spiralling out of control and I really worry about her. She's a totally different person from the one I fell in love with and married.

So basically, I'm very confused today about what to do for the best. I'm not a confrontational person and hope that Saturday night was an isolated incident but I'm just not sure it was. I'm also pretty sure that some of my feelings about it all must be stemming from my own feelings of jealousy for her being with other guys. Am I reading too much in to it? I wish I knew. I'm tempted to just leave it for now and hope that things improve but in the mean time I'm not sure what's going on behind closed doors as far as my son is concerned.

Help.

Kev