WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

She picked up the boys and brought over a few coupons for things that she knew I used. She also brought over a clothes catalog with a coupon from the place I get most of my clothes

She was about 10 minutes early, which iritate me somewhat. I handed her the boys bags and asked her to make sure she got everything.

That's when I came out with my boys and said goodbye and buckled them in.

So that was some more detail before she asked about the other bill

Surprisingly, on my way to NY, she called me

I told her that with what's going on between us I didn't think it would be a good idea to loan her money. She said it wasn't a loan. She just wanted me to pay the bill and she would pay me next month. I said that's a loan. She said ok am thanked me for letting her know as she didn't want anything to stop our 7 year old from going to school

I told her that I was glad she felt that way too about our son's school

There was an awkward silence so I asked if she had time for a question. She said yes

I thanked her for bringin the clothes catalog over as I needed more clothes. So I asked I'd age could refresh my memory if what color shirts I looked good in. She said that with what's going on between us age didn't think that was a good idea. I said I understood and started I say goodbye and hangip when she said she was just kidding. Then she told me and we talked about the different colors and shirt styles

So surprisingly, no tantrum. Probably because she expected it because of what I said before she left the driveway

I tried to throw her off a little by asking her about the shirt colors, even though I really did want to know. Not sure if I did or not but oh well, whatever