doodles....

good to hear form you again. I was wondering what was up!!

I feel your pain on the OW being invited to the holiday. That is truely wrong and like you said, to have to lie about who you are just in case someone asks? I would not want to be with a man that would have to lie about who I was just so I could go some where with him.

I sure hope the judge throws the book at her next week and can get her to leave you guys alone for good. Then you will hvae piece of mind that your son won't be around her anytime soon. I bet if that happens though that the H will get upset about it and 'attack' your feelings and motives about it. Don't let him get to you if he does.

Hope things pan out with the crush, if he decides to stop 'playing' and start crushing for you too.


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09