Do the WAS really waver that much? Over the past couple of years at varioius points it seems my ex actually was able to make some efforts to get along, but quickly took a turn right back to the issuesville.
Tough road for sure. Hard to understand what makes her come and go. I would like for us very much to get along. It is difficult. Do you think she musters up enough strength to face our issues (or interact with each other) for a short time and then becomes overwhelmed with the reality of it and then reverts back? I am sure I did pursue her some during that time along with other times as well. Trying to change that too now that I know better.
I have not read the books DB or DR yet. I have read a lot about them on the website forums. Need to get them asap.
I am really trying to understand, develop and change myself and the things I can change.
It is so good to hear the success stories of others on here. It provides a glimmer of hope to help keep you going.
