Who is this person?

[Day by Day]

It's so hard not to initiate contact. If I am getting more polite responses from him, isn't that a sign that my different attitude in my emails is working? Shouldn't I keep doing that? I have tried avoiding contact before and he seemed angrier with me.

I'm just so confused. He's NOT the man I married. He's not behaving like the man I love. I don't understand the behavior. This separation is so shocking and drastic and the silence from him is killing me. He's not moving on either, WTH?? I know not to have any R talks, but I'm trying to understand what's going on with him. How do I figure this out?