I had a great time with the guys last night followed by golf this morning. I think I do a great job GALing in keeping myself occupied when my W is gone.
My W and kids returned home today around 4:00 and her mood hasn't changed since Saturday morning. Coldness and distance is the soup du jour this evening. The ups and downs are really starting to wear me out. I detach quite nicely when my W is away, but it's terribly difficult when she's home. My W does a very good "ice princess" impersonation. Are these mood swings by the WAS normal? What's causing them?
She did reaffirm our Retrovaille appointment again as we were discussing our October schedule. She's also planning a "girls weekend" in Atlanta to visit some of her old girlfriends.
I now have only 26 days to Retro, but this limboland is really starting to wear me down. Currently, I don't see my W being responsive to Retro, but I guess time will only tell. I'm tired right now and my hope of saving this marriage is starting to run on empty. A good night's sleep is in order.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
