Greek, this is unreal advice. I start implementing first thing in the morning. Check back, because I may have questions. I am particualry concerned about the bulldog lawyer. I have one of those availabel should i need it. I am afraid he will only want to go after the OM side of things and I dont wantto do that at this point. The OM issue is tricky for me. I know that there were inapprpriate txtxs and voice calls to this OM. I have copies of several of them. Infact today i noticed on her IE history that she was looking at his pics. Problem is that 14 years ago, I had an A and she waited me out. It was unreal but she did it. So my tolerance level is slighlty above the average joe.

What i dont know is if this has gone to an EA or PA. I have no absolute proof. I must double the effort. I am also trying not to snoop, but maybe that is the right thing to do???


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present