He is home from Ca and took the whole family out to dinner and has been very friendly and into what the kids and i did yesterday. I am guessing maybe this double life thing is working for him right now and that is why he is friendly. Am I right? I don't know what steps to take at this point. I am asking for help from SANDI or PUPPY. Please chime in. Do I proceed forward with a lawyer or do I tell the kids about what he has been doing and that is why I am moving forward, or what do I do at this point??? Please give me advice.