I don't feel right when she's not here, and I don't feel right when she is. I look forward to getting home and seeing her every day, which is then painful. The bottom line is that I still need to detach. No, I'm not going to make any spontanious decisions on this. Guess I just need to push on. Just frustrated with my own emotions.
Or impatient. I know b/c I have been there, and still are.
If you aren't certain you are done, then stay put. PERIOD.
What you are feeling is totally normal. The negative feelings you have are due to her not meeting your needs. So, you have to do that right now. That's where GAL'ing comes in.
Keep working on detaching. It will come, but it doesn't happen overnight. When you get there, you'll know it.
You just have to be patient and keep working on you.
