T2 and lefty (shortened your name)LOL, Thanks for letting me know that all those things are good signs! It's funny how now I notice every little thing H does... H still knocks even though I told him he didn't have to. But he is starting to do more and has once again quite taking things! Another good sign. In fact we had found a couple rolls of wire fence and he didn't say a word; took them and put them in the barn. The man does one thing for a while and then does a 180 I'm not unhappy about it as I know these are all good signs. I want so bad to see if he will go golfing with that couple, I'm climbing my walls. I want to see if he really goes or if he is just saying he will go. Because if he goes; this means a big step closer to saving M. Anxiously awaiting good weather for some weekend! You must be doing great T2?! BTW I still have a phone, we will see if I still have one by this weekend! Deb Happier than a pig in mud!LOL