Having been through this for the last 6 months I would say there is atleast an emotional affair between your wife and someone else. Because when there is someone else she wants to be with then you are only an obstacle to be gotten out of the way. Sorry to be so blunt.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final