I didn't ask you to defend your motives. I asked if telling him his marriage can be saved was helping him or harming him? His words to me were "It got my head spinning". For someone who intends to 'help', your comments about saving his marriage aren't working.
I only asked you one thing. Do you understand that these comments are hurtful given the state of his marriage, and if so do you take responsibility and apologize to FIB?
You call it mudslinging in order to avoid the question and the responsibility for the hurt your words cause.
I just got off the phone with FIB and he will post tomorrow.