I just wantd to say, "I feel for you man." The more I read about how cold she is, the more I'm convinced that there is an OM involved. Its the only thing that seems to create a reason for her behavior.
Just wanted to let you know you aren't "talking to the wall" here.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT