WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

As expected, she asked about the bill as she put her SUV in gear. I just said we will talk about it later.

Coincidentally she called about another bill - this is for an extra curricular activity for my 3 year old. Our verbal agreement had been I would pay for extra curricular. I did that to make sure that financially they would be able to participate. All I asked was for her to take them as required. Fortunately this one is part of his school so they will take him so I know he will get to go

I did give her the check, made out to the school, for that one tonite

I'm going to make it short and to the point tonite

I'll say, with where we are at, I don't feel loaning her money would be appropriate

Then I'll brace for her tantrum or the hang up.....