It was just like when a conversation was going on between all of us, he actually made a face when he had to respond to me.
DBing often recommend not initiating the conversation. He should initiate most conversations when possible. That should cut down on some problems. If he still would make a face when he initiates the conversation, then I would call him on it. Say that's disrespectful, I will not talk to someone making faces at me (I wouldn't put up with that with my 9 year old, much less a grown man). Then if he continues to be disrespectful, walk away.
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He won't allow them to be issues because he is consumed with me being a liar and his being right!!! The issue here is trust! There are no affairs, no ILYBINILWY. He is just choosing to believe things that aren't true. Will DBing work for that?
DBing works for everything. Michele has another good book about how you can use DBing techniques in all areas of your life in her "Change your life" book. I highly recommend that one-it's one of my favorite books.
I don't really think the issue is one of trust. More like your H is having issues with insecurity, low self esteem, or whatever. You haven't done anything to betray his trust. DBing is good for you, but at some point for your marriage to continue long-term I think he will have to work on his issues, seek IC or whatever.
