GIMA and Blue - yep, agree wholeheartedly. The break-up will suck for all of us but esp. for the two of them.

In his initial salvo for the R talk, he said that if any of his friends had gone through what he'd gone through and was considering getting back together with his wife, H would advise them against it. Then he told me that he'd been done with me.

I just nodded quietly and kept listening. There were a few stings for me in that convo, but nothing I didn't already know, ya know? And at least so far, he's been easier on me than I have been on myself. Having come through the things *I've* said to me over all of this, what he's got to say seems mild by comparison.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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