Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

You're right, I know. I didn't let him bring me too far down. It was just like when a conversation was going on between all of us, he actually made a face when he had to respond to me.

In reading many other posts, there is one huge difference in mine- we aren't really even at the point where how one speaks, what one does, how what one does, can be issues. He won't allow them to be issues because he is consumed with me being a liar and his being right!!! The issue here is trust! There are no affairs, no ILYBINILWY. He is just choosing to believe things that aren't true. Will DBing work for that?

I will do it just for myself and for the boys. Just not sure how it will help us when the issue is lack of trust and you can't rebuild trust without talking and without being given the opportunity.