I am sorry to hear about your recent round of crud. Is there someone that can be at the house for you when they come by? Perhaps a friend or family member? I know it is always something but just think the sooner you get this done the sooner STBX will be out of your hair for real. Lots of hugs. You can do this Alison.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory