Hey, the mere fact he brought up the R talk is a milestoen in itself. View it as a possible positive step, and keep doing what you are doing. Based on his comments, it's obviously working.
Oh, and on the issue of breaking OW's heart, H has a child with YOU. H has a family with YOU. I don't think it's a close race b/w you and OW, but even if it were a tie, YOU should get the tie breaker.
I was also thinking about why he brought up OW and how it would be bad to break her heart. The fact he brought this up as a possibility means he's giving it thought. Give him the room to make the right decision and keep being the new Dia.
