I've looked at changing the locks but there are five main entry points to the home and it would cost a heap! I also know H and if I did this, he would take action against me. He's a placid and calm man but if you cross his boundary, he turns BIG TIME!
I hear your message on not asking things that he won't comply with or that I can't enforce ... that's worthy of lots more thought on my behalf and will be my 'topic of the day' to ponder.
I have to say, H has respected his own statement of not entering without me being here and I know that he trusts me to the last - except for telling me where he is living but of course, that has other ramifications. In all other matters, we both maintain the utmost trust in one another, even though mine does have a slight question mark in the background these days!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
