T2, Wow, I'm so glad your H did just return, like he was never gone. Hope that happens for me. Would like to sleep and wake up to the person I always had for 21 yrs! A few things came to my mind reading this thread! When my H comes over he does a few things that he did while he lived him, it's strange and I noticed them recently. One is he goes in the barn grabs a couple of ears of corn throws them on the ground steps on them and grinds his foot into them so the kernals come off. Just like when he was at home, like he hasn't been gone and he doesn't need to do this, so why does he? There are other things he has gone back to doing. Is this a good sign? It's like he wants to feel like "normal" by doing these things. I just find it strange, because he doesn't have to do those things...I think it shows me that I will wake up, roll over and find my H laying in bed beside me! Deb Maybe I should be in "hopeful" BB! I think sometimes I see things know they are different and don't realize they are "signs" that things are changing around! Deb
