We all want what is best for FIB. We all think we know what that is.
Perhaps, instead, we should be asking FIB what he wants?
So what is it FIB? How do we help you?
Yes Frank, how can we help you? And Jack's right. There will be other holidays and once things are in writing, you will have enforcement powers. For the life of me, I don't know why they are not in some written form yet, if only informally.
And by the way, in YOUR wife's case, I would follow the letter of the documents you eventually sign as best you can. No variations, no "give and take" at firstuntil you feel empowered enough to do so. I don't know if I'm being clear but does this make sense to you? I mean to suggest that with her, clarity and boundary setting and enforcement are so important. I think it'll help the r you have with her as well. And you get to blame the L's all you want/can. YOU SHOULD blame us! Seriously, that's what we get paid (and sometimes stabbed) for...just saying, get it done in writing for everyone's sake. And who cares why she takes the kids to the movies? Maybe she's evil or maybe it's an easy evening on her b/c there's little to no interaction between parent and child at a film, imo.
You do have rights but until something is decided, it's difficult for you to enforce them. And Bworl is right about the school thing FOR NOW....for now. Soon though, things will be different. This is NOT forever.
Just so I know, are you still okay with your L? Seems as if this case is like the Anna Nicole Smith case, only there -at least we have a $billion to fight about...what on God's earth is taking so long? (Did you hide the castle and that $8million cash, or what??)
FIB, I think we ALL want to know when to pop the bubbly for you. So, do we have a countdown yet? A goal date? Can we say 60 days? 90?
Please Dear God, let there be peace. J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
