Tried that one Bonny and he just continues to say NO and then walks out. I can't take the key as it's on his keyring which always stays firmly planted in his pocket when he is here.
Legally, I have no rights and he knows that - it's what he's feeding off - he knows that I am powerless over this one. H has said that he won't come in to the house if he knows that I am not here and I do trust that he will not, but I don't see that it's fair. As you say, I'm not even allowed to know where he is living.
I am just appealing to his sense of fairness and aliens don't play that game. I'm stuffed on this one, basically.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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