Awwwwwwwww--sweetie, that was so hard to hear! You did great. You responded perfectly--and he noticed.

Just a thought--even though you symbolize the conflict he's feeling, he still keeps coming home to you, and not staying away. And certainly seems to enjoy the time you spend together!

Hang in there. He knows you've changed. Now it's his turn.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012