Well, last night turned out to be a complete disaster. We started off haveing a great evening with the kids, had a few beers then got the kids to sleep. Since it seems to be easier to reach my wife via txt, i thought it woudl fun to txt across the room. she actually flirted with me for a little while, then completely shut it down. At which point i decided to go to bed and she got mad. We then, unfortunately, got into the D discussion. She had a notebook on our living room table for two days in which she had written several of her D requests (alimony, child support etcc...) I told her they were not going to fly because i had spoken to several Ls and she went nuts. She got extremely mad that i had even opend the notebook (which had been there for my kids to read had they wanted - in fact it is probably still there) Anyway the coversation descended into her stating that the we were getting D and that the only time she would think of reconciliation was after seeing the personal changes i have made stick for three years. Whats that about?
I guess this is the time when you realize that what you had is dead. completely dead.
Coach, I know you have been down this path,what should i expect to happen when she finally does file? How do i try to keep it together from there or, at that point is it over?
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
