I know I shoudn't push any R discussions, esp when I may not like what I'd hear. But I'm really tempted to ask WTF is going on, what the plan is, what the rules of engagement are.

I want to not do Hs laundry, not cook dinner, not sleep in our bed w/H ..
But if I do my laundry and not Hs that means rummaging thru the dirty clothes and just picking mine out. And how do I cook dinner for myself and S16 but not for H? And if I leave our bed - or our house - I don't know that I'll ever come back to it.

That sure would be a 180 for me, tho, sleeping upstairs in the guest room.

I am tired of being uncomfortable in my own house.

H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all