Thanks Kass...sorry your day isn't going well.

I am giving it a huge effort today to not let him get to me...even though he is trying really hard.

This morning on my way to church I passed him and his married gf in town. I pretended not to see them and he looked like he was trying to melt into the seat. This is the gf that he swore yesterday was not in his life anymore! Ten minutes later he sends a text asking how we were and what we were up to...obviously fishing to see if I saw him after the gf was dismissed. I didn't respond as we were in church and he kept it up. Finally I said 'just leaving church. Baby is wonderful. Have a good day.' He came back asking if I was crabby. No need to go any further. I did my job in updating him about baby.

Waht a toxic life he leads. No wonder he needs alcohol to hide behind. Must be exhausting trying to cover his tracks all the time.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!