BJ,

Thanks for the clarity, what do u mean by wife posturing?

I am going to pick up that tough love book today and learned optimism too.

She is acting very nice today and is even willing to pick me up something at the mall when I asked. I told her not to go out of her way.

She is going to be on her own with this class she wants to take when I tell her the vac slots r full at work.

I am going out tonight to enjoy myself after working 2 days straight.

M:35
W:36
M:10 yrs
T:11.5 yrs
C: B7, G3
ED: 3/09
DB: 3/20/09
Served 12-8-09
Still going through the process