She brought up Retrouvaille again - she has mixed feelings. Said she'll go, but not to the follow-ups. Said, she didn't want to say too much because everything's going "so well" between us right now - meaning, I guess minimial conflict - but, she's saying that she doesn't think the result will be what I want, as she's not invested in working on the M.
I wouldn't even discuss it with her. I mean you don't know how it will go until after you go. If she's going in with an open mind or even a slightly open mind, I wouldn't worry about the followups or her agreeing to them at this point. You can decide that stuff later. All that stuff in the future, by then she may want to work on the marriage more than you. Who knows? I think you also need to be realistic about it, keep your expectations low, keep GALing. Detachment will follow.
