He just gets more p.o.ed and drives off like a maniac mumbling something about maybe going to the East Bay (OW i figure).
Hope,
Do you live in San Francisco? The reason I ask is because the courts there should be pretty favorable to you as a mother. Your H may not have it as easy as you or he thinks. In the event of a D, he is going to have to prove he deserves 50/50 joint physical custody. I know this because I'm going to mediation very soon up here in the North Bay (similar venue) and it's not going to be a cake walk for me even though I'm a dedicated father.
I'm in the north bay too - Marin. My lawyer says the courts favor 50%-50% so I don't know how easy or hard it is...
As for legal sep. - health insurance is a big part of it.
As for the rest - I don't know. I'm really sad and tired today.
