Hey Sugarbugz - just wanted to say welcome from a fellow Okie. Your problems sound very much like mine, although somewhat reversed, so given our proximity I hope that my problems aren't contagious! Actually, I am very sorry about the problems that you're dealing with as I know exactly how you feel, but this is a good place to be if you're searching for answers. With regard to our situations being reversed, I'm 33 and my wife is 37, and I'm the high desire spouse while she's low desire. You had a lot more years of a good sex life in your marriage than I did as mine came to a halt soon after tying the knot over 6 years ago. But as far as how your husband reacts and how it makes you feel I know right where you're coming from. I don't have much to offer in the way of advice at the moment (considering that I haven't found the solution yet) but I can tell you that you'll get a lot of great advice from the people on this forum. Good luck.
