Hey everyone. Things just continue to get better and better. Yesterday, case in point.
W and I were sitting on a bench next to this smaller river in our area. We'd gone for a drive because it was such a beautiful day and we were driving along the river and spotted this bench behind this restaurant. So we stopped and went out and sat there enjoying the day.
Part way through the conversation we started talking about our upcoming trip to Disney. I said to her, "We've got a pretty big anniversary coming next year (25 years) and I was thinking we should go to Disney for 10 days in Oct". W looked at me and said "that would make me happy". I looked her dead in the eyes and said "are you happy?" And she grabbed me and pulled me close and gave me the most passionate kiss and said "Yes, I'm happy". She then said "I do love you". WOW!
This from the woman who just 5 months ago told me she thought she was happy before OM came along, but she after she met him, she realized she wasn't. I'd say the fog has definitely cleared.
Another one. W was telling me she was talking to her GF at work this week and they were discussing this benefit golf outing her work was having to help the kids of one of the guys who recently passed away. GF was saying even though she's very competitive, she could just never get into golf. W said "I told GF that I could never have fun golfing with out Hope4us. He is patient with me, relaxes me when I'm playing, and gives me suggestions to help with my game without making me feel bad". She said GF then said "I wish my H would do that, but he makes me feel bad about everything I do". W just looked at me with a smile on her face.
We came home and enjoyed the rest of the evening, watched some Football, fixed a frozen pizza, sat on the couch talking. About 10, W curled up in a ball and fell a sleep with her legs on my lap. It was the best feeling ever. A while later I covered her up with a blanket and went to bed. W came to bed a while later. Not going to lie, would have liked to have a little wink, wink, nudge, nudge, but it's ok. Those conversations and togetherness were worth more than anything.
Talk to ya soon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.